You Can’t Always Get What You Want – Or Can You?
We live in a world that we have so much at our fingertips. Get online at 9:00AM and have a new suit delivered to your door by noon. We can take virtual trips to the Grand Canyon while lying in bed in Indianapolis. We can even tour a house from our phone while standing in line at the coffee shop. So why, then, can be it sometimes be so difficult when it comes to actually buying that house we’ve been dreaming of? Perhaps you can’t always get what you want.
There are a lot of factors at play. Maybe the app you have been using has outdated information and the house is already sold. Maybe the photographer did such a great job that the pictures are quite deceiving. Perhaps the description of spacious and meticulously maintained was very subjective. Or, just maybe, it isn’t for sale right now. The nation’s real estate market is currently experiencing low inventory. So, what do you do if just can’t find what you’re looking for? (There’s another song in there) There are several options depending on your budget.
You can rent until that right place shows up – but you need to be ready for it. Make sure you can either get out of your lease with little consequence or sign a month-to-month lease. Another option is to buy a house in a location you love and renovate it to be exactly what you want. There may be plenty of things about it you like, and you can build on what’s already there. Lastly, you can build. Of course, you need to have the land, but if that’s available, it’s a great option. One word of warning, however, you still may not get exactly what you want. Why? Well, there are several reasons for that, too.
Your lot may not be able to hold the size or shape of the exact home you want. There may be an HOA involved that will disallow one of your desires. It may just not be possible to have all the things you want in the size or style of house you choose. Your architect and builder are good sources for these questions before you get started. And lastly, we change what we want. In the beginning, we want a humble home on a nice lot bordering a creek. Then we grow, change, and see many more possibilities. We then want the 3000 square foot, 2-story “smart” home with an award-winning pool and trimmings that could stack up to any on Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous.
Why am I prosing on not getting what you want? Because it’s just a house. They come and they go. Stuff can be acquired and it can be lost. Don’t stress yourself out over finding the exact right house or making it so perfect that you fail to enjoy your life in the process. Maybe you’re trying to make your house perfect because it’s something you can control. Be happy with your life and yourself first. It’s a house – you make it a home.
Michelle Froedge is a residential Realtor and Principal Broker in the Greater Nashville and Williamson County areas of Tennessee. “Mom” to four-legged fur babies, Tyler and Livvie, Auntie to Zelamie, she is a vegetarian and sings in her spare time. Michelle has lived in Nashville and Franklin since 1997 and has been selling homes since 2004.